"I was thinking of a small party after my official marriage at the office of the attorney but everyone is insisting that i go for a big church wedding,my problem is not the wedding but you know if i don't people will think am refusing because of the finances but that is not the case.do you think am doing the right thing?". I listened to a friend as he seemed totally out of options,it's something that almost everyone is always dealing with all the time.
A decision is supposed to be the ultimate of all the thinking and perception of any particular subject depending on the issue at hand,what any other person thinks is just what they would have done if that was what they had to deal with but given that it's you then you've got to be real and honest to yourself.One has to be ready to personally take the responsibility and gobble down the resultant of any of their decisions.
One has to draw the line between what is about them-self and the rest.in this case the rest is 'the people'.what another person thinks about your issue is their business not yours. Einstein said "If you've never made a mistake then you have never tried on anything new",one has to make mistakes in some time of their life to be able to clearly look back at and learn from them.You are not always going to be making consultations the rest of your life seeking other people's opinions.
Whatever one decides you take ( may be from the variety of the advice everyone shares whether positive or negative ) has to thoroughly thought about by you and not an indirect decision of a friend to you.
A decision is supposed to be the ultimate of all the thinking and perception of any particular subject depending on the issue at hand,what any other person thinks is just what they would have done if that was what they had to deal with but given that it's you then you've got to be real and honest to yourself.One has to be ready to personally take the responsibility and gobble down the resultant of any of their decisions.One has to draw the line between what is about them-self and the rest.in this case the rest is 'the people'.what another person thinks about your issue is their business not yours. Einstein said "If you've never made a mistake then you have never tried on anything new",one has to make mistakes in some time of their life to be able to clearly look back at and learn from them.You are not always going to be making consultations the rest of your life seeking other people's opinions.
Whatever one decides you take ( may be from the variety of the advice everyone shares whether positive or negative ) has to thoroughly thought about by you and not an indirect decision of a friend to you.
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