BEFORE THE CONFIDENCE

# Was times have you had something done that got everyone marvel that you took it as one moment that you wish would define your entire life,one that you would replay again and again if you could?

# Was there yet another time when you did something and felt that you had given it your all only to latter get someone tell  you how black the entire event painted you?,how you had looked like a ten year old confused.

    These are times in life that one has to go through to actually know who they really are,they are parts of the puzzle that we can never leave out.Giving out information is one day to day acts that has to always happen,how correct the information is,how sure you are about the information and how crucial the information is are some of the things that determine how one gives/presents the information.Its good to have someone to look up to but then one has to first of all nurture that positivity of who they are within them.

  Acceptance of who one is deep inside them helps to rebuild the weak spirit and confidence comes as it is,just as in the case of the body when hurt or incase of a bruise the defense mechanism even without using the external medicine it has the ability to heal as long as the spot is identified.The body in this case is not very different from the sociology of human psychology in an aspect of the society.There are very few people if asked would consider themselves role model or better still a star to their own self.Before anyone else can see the value in you then you have to see it out first.

The value in the words of an individual always try bringing the,selves out even when one doesn't feel the need to.There are times you would put yourself to where people would see the value of what you have and appreciate it,that is bringing it out before its time and may be misunderstood for pride,the aspect of confidence we are referring  to is one in which what's is in you comes out on its own.These two statements may seem similar but are way too far from one another.In the first case it's like having new underpants where only you know that and wherever you go you feel new and no other person can tell but the expression is always out speaking for itself that there is certainly something unusual.

 The second case where one may not have the confidence but they seem  to console themselves in the unknown.It can be related to trying to do something not because you think it is right or in your conscious but because you want to be far different and to an extension draw attention,this may turn out and have things to the opposite direction.

Sometimes it begins with fear which may have been an escalation from; the nature of their upbringing,the environment one was bred in or better still could be naturally inborn.

 We have the information but are unsure about it,we don't consider it full enough or better still misinformation could be the case.unless the push to bring out that which you have brings itself out naturally then confidence may be far from the subject.