BEING UNIQUE YET YOURSELF

Every human of this time would want to be associated with something to call theirs,one that can be traced back to them,we all want to be the trend setters in every aspect of our day-to-day activities.its more like an ego but a positive one at that.

We would want to be noticed with that which makes us stand out;in discussions,dressing,at our job,our neighbourhood and even with our family members.we are unique in every of what we do yet we try hard enough not to let it out because we think its abnormal ,weird,awkward or it would push us away from where we think is the right place.one thing we never realise is that the awkward,weird things are what identifies us,they are what cannot be changed about us.They are what no other person can be or even copy,we want to always agree with what others say,at times is because we always want to keep the conversation going or prevent changing what others perceive us.

In realizing the uniqueness in in us,it doesn't have to be as difficult as it seem of as it would be made to be like,it is very easy to tell if someone is actuality themself or trying to be someone else so as to fit to the particular environment the find themselves in.

   1.They would easily pick up all that is happening 'beyond' them,dressing,talking and almost virtually everything be it the newspaper,on tv and all that almost everyone is talking about.In being yourself you have to be realistic in what you do so that it is something that attributes to your doing.

  2.The ease with which they would switch and support statements that puts them with the majority,most of those who fake such personalities fear losing.they always want to be on the winning side and with that they can easily switch statements to at least console their unidentified  place.

  3.Most of what some of such personalities would do is mostly for the sake of it,at times it happens because once it begins the rest has to happen just to protect the first interest or mentain the already begun lifestyle.The best way to do anything is to have realistic grounds on which what you do is based,all to know its you in control.

   4.Knowing that what you stand for is the right thing then you never have anything to prove to anyone,that is always a philosophy of a real identity,if at a particular time it seems difficult to express who you are then know that you have to reinvent your identity.

 Going or flowing with the trend is an issue but may be a personal as each one would defend their statements.The reality is that it kills the realistic and unable presently confront the issue head on.knowing that you are right even when you can't prove it to those who don't believe you for they wouldn't even understand you.unique persons rarely take sides in fact they provide a totally different picture of things.