DEFINING TRUST.

Trust depending on whatever dictionary one is using may be defined in way more than the number of times it is used,many are times trust loses its definition as should as many would use it to fit words to a particular context or fit themselves in an avenue where there is a personal interest.

 There are two instances that can be used to completely contrast the interpretation of trust as many have used.first, one needs to understand that in trying to understand if someone trusts you or not you can not tell  from their interaction with you or better still you can not get them to bring out their perception of you,people draw their boundary lines right from the very first interaction,this really tells on who one is,what they expose their minds  to mostly and what defines them.

  Its the nature of the human mind to have almost everything looked at in two ways,it's either the good side outweighing the bad or the positive side which we switch our minds to believing becomes more concrete and proves right what we consider best.

  There are individuals who  we would confide in without fear,those that we pour out our heart to and feel relieved with the burden lifted off our shoulders.In such a case trust is no question at all,The confidence that comes with feeling that these individuals own a part of us that they understand more than any other person would,really earns them trust beyond our own understanding.We would all admit that there are people in our lives who once we meet it takes very little time and we feel like it has been more than years,those who we naturally connect to and they then fill the gap that very few ( if any) can fill.Then there are those who we can spend more than years,those that have been in our lives for as long as we can remember but then they remain just like any other person,their presence or absence all seems the same.

 Then there is yet something else we confuse for trust and its confidence and ability.There are times people show potential and the ability to fully execute what seems a little above the obvious.Trust is more of the unseen definition of  what is inside than the obvious consideration of mankind as the outer being what defines one.